Anonymous asked: since you're the relationship guru.... I don't know how to mend a relationship I fucked up in the past. I don't have feelings for her any longer but I just want to keep in contact - I still care. So... help?

If you knew me better you’d know how ironic it would be to call me the relationship guru…

I think there are not secret tricks or anything to deal with this. You can only do one thing: be honest with her and tell her how you feel. If you’re truly sorry then tell her so, tell her you still care about her and make clear in what way. Tell her you want to keep in contact and make sure you make clear that you’ll do it her way. If you’re the one who fucked it up then you can only make it right by letting her decide if and how you two continue.